personalities differ... inevitable individual differences. but somehow i feel we're all alike. everyone has ups and downs, good & bad sides of them. its juz different extent of each side that we show others. how u portray urself to others. in fact, i know some who are realli niCe pple. but somehow... the way they present themselves is bad. so others juz hate them. only if u realli knOw them... then u'll wanna side them. so all i can say is... don't judge someone if u dun understand them.
our behaviours are affected by the extent of how you control your mood, perspective and perception on things. experiences also shape behaviour... so i guess it explains why u treat pple differently. some pple cannot control emotions well... maybe juz w/o that ability. or maybe juz bold in showing true feelings. or maybe juz simply ignorant. tolerance levels are in-born ba... in our genetic makeup.
if u're alwayz miserable & finding faults in everything...then your life will be so full of hatred. got a postcard from my jc daes,on my wall saying, "a positive attitude is a powerful force that cannot be stopped". this is so true. so watever u do, should u blame anyone? coz everyone has faults... so juz stay positive? yeah! but can't be over-optimistic coz might end up ignoring and running away from problems. so when to be neutral? when to raise up to ur expectations? when to put aside all those doubtful expectations and juz accept simple things that are juz right in front of u? juz feel that sometimes.. i'm caught in something that i dunno how to get out of. a situation that seems so obvious but hard to amend. juz carry on & see where fate brings me to? its bothering me all the time... like haunting me each time i'm reminded. maybe i shouldn't think too much or care so much? coz ultimately... there's actually nothing.
well... i'm realli crapping now. i'm not trying to prove anything... juz having some random thoughts. did a facebook colour test.. & i'm White! "You are the color of purity and truth. While you may often be considered naive, you know what is truly important in this world and are morally steadfast. While it could only take tiny interaction from another color to spoil your perfection, chances are you are going to remain pure and beautiful forever." dunno how true this is... but i juz love white. hahaha the xmas decor in town so nice la... common theme of abundant string of tiny lights from orchard all the way to suntec. so bling bling.. with snowflakes! its gona be a "white" christmas. =) okie... tmr's the day! i wish everyone having exams... all the best! it'll be over soon! i'm so glad dec is coming.... woOo hOOo~
About Me
